1 00:00:51,640 --> 00:00:56,280 My friends and I used to find food here for the pigs. I miss those days. 2 00:00:57,080 --> 00:01:05,520 -We stole beans too, do you remember? -Sure! And cucumbers, too. 3 00:01:07,600 --> 00:01:12,120 We stole a huge one! 4 00:01:12,640 --> 00:01:14,320 In the field over there. 5 00:01:14,720 --> 00:01:20,200 We'd always pass by that farm and grab a few cucumbers. 6 00:01:20,600 --> 00:01:23,080 We picked up food for the pigs and ourselves. 7 00:01:23,520 --> 00:01:24,880 So much fun! 8 00:01:32,080 --> 00:01:35,600 This is the highest rock around. 9 00:02:02,720 --> 00:02:07,000 Di, you once told me you'd never regret being Hmong 10 00:02:07,440 --> 00:02:11,240 even though it's so hard. 11 00:02:18,240 --> 00:02:23,760 When we met, I was shocked that a little girl like you 12 00:02:24,000 --> 00:02:27,720 understood the danger that a young woman must face. 13 00:02:30,560 --> 00:02:36,800 I could see your childhood slipping away. 14 00:02:41,160 --> 00:02:46,320 Does time pass more quickly in the mountains of North Vietnam? 15 00:02:46,640 --> 00:02:50,040 Do the Hmong people live a more intense life than we do? 16 00:02:54,080 --> 00:03:01,680 Your hermit-like existence has been so protected for centuries... 17 00:03:02,640 --> 00:03:04,880 It all began as such a mystery to me. 18 00:03:07,560 --> 00:03:11,040 We grew up in different cultures, 19 00:03:11,640 --> 00:03:13,360 didn't even speak the same language 20 00:03:14,000 --> 00:03:17,640 but miraculously we became friends. 21 00:03:18,160 --> 00:03:19,880 Sisters even. 22 00:03:24,120 --> 00:03:28,840 I filmed for three years, always scared of what would eventually happen: 23 00:03:29,720 --> 00:03:32,000 That I would lose you. 24 00:04:24,400 --> 00:04:28,160 I have dropped it... Here it is! 25 00:04:32,960 --> 00:04:34,400 Give it to me. 26 00:04:34,800 --> 00:04:36,720 There is another one. 27 00:04:51,560 --> 00:04:53,160 Two more! 28 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,720 One is on the top. 29 00:04:56,400 --> 00:04:57,840 Just take the big ones. 30 00:04:58,080 --> 00:05:01,120 They are all big. 31 00:05:01,800 --> 00:05:03,080 Like this one? 32 00:05:04,480 --> 00:05:06,800 We will cook it at home. 33 00:05:16,400 --> 00:05:18,160 It looks like real flowers. 34 00:05:18,960 --> 00:05:19,960 Happy New Year! 35 00:05:20,800 --> 00:05:22,200 This is the peach tree! 36 00:05:23,520 --> 00:05:26,720 Dear Ancestors, this meal is for you. 37 00:05:28,240 --> 00:05:30,080 Let's drink now! 38 00:05:32,480 --> 00:05:35,720 How many did you drink, Diem? 1...2...3... 39 00:05:37,120 --> 00:05:38,200 Seven glasses! 40 00:05:38,520 --> 00:05:40,000 Let's catch the bride! 41 00:05:44,680 --> 00:05:49,640 I will play the role of the bride's sister. 42 00:05:59,720 --> 00:06:02,520 Get off now. 43 00:06:04,680 --> 00:06:06,640 Go away! 44 00:06:07,520 --> 00:06:09,200 What is this game? 45 00:06:09,360 --> 00:06:13,680 We are pretending to kidnap the bride, for Lunar New Year. 46 00:06:14,840 --> 00:06:18,200 How dare you kidnap my sister in front of me? 47 00:06:18,680 --> 00:06:21,840 I beg your forgiveness. 48 00:06:22,120 --> 00:06:25,600 I will never forgive you! 49 00:06:26,160 --> 00:06:30,680 Bye my child. Be careful and have a happy life. 50 00:06:33,240 --> 00:06:36,000 We will visit you and your new family soon. 51 00:06:43,800 --> 00:06:45,840 It was eating our eggs. 52 00:06:46,240 --> 00:06:49,120 Really? I can't believe it. 53 00:06:49,680 --> 00:06:53,840 I was collecting eggs and I caught it in the act. 54 00:06:58,080 --> 00:07:00,360 Your dad just caught a huge snake. 55 00:07:00,800 --> 00:07:01,600 Where is it? 56 00:07:01,800 --> 00:07:04,320 He swapped it for a bottle of booze. 57 00:07:06,000 --> 00:07:08,160 Only one bottle for a snake? 58 00:07:09,600 --> 00:07:10,960 What a bad deal! 59 00:07:11,240 --> 00:07:13,520 My bro could sell it for $5. 60 00:07:17,840 --> 00:07:19,640 All the clothes are dyed, right? 61 00:07:22,560 --> 00:07:25,360 I should get a hair cut on the way. 62 00:07:25,560 --> 00:07:27,400 You don't need a cut. 63 00:07:29,080 --> 00:07:31,680 Where is my helmet? 64 00:07:32,000 --> 00:07:32,920 No idea. 65 00:07:39,600 --> 00:07:42,680 Pick up the squashes or the pig will eat them. 66 00:07:58,640 --> 00:08:04,880 When the men are drunk they may try to kidnap you. 67 00:08:05,520 --> 00:08:06,400 I will run away. 68 00:08:07,240 --> 00:08:13,520 Anyway you are not Hmong so they cannot force you. 69 00:08:15,360 --> 00:08:20,520 You should let Nay kidnap you. Give it a try. 70 00:08:21,240 --> 00:08:22,720 Just a try? 71 00:08:22,920 --> 00:08:25,320 No, it would be a real bride kidnapping. 72 00:08:26,200 --> 00:08:28,400 Run away if you don't like him. 73 00:08:28,840 --> 00:08:30,760 Or if he has a small one! 74 00:08:31,640 --> 00:08:35,040 You better check the size first. 75 00:09:05,000 --> 00:09:07,440 Just one glass, come on! 76 00:09:07,840 --> 00:09:11,120 Sorry, my wife is not allowed to drink. 77 00:09:11,400 --> 00:09:14,040 She is a Protestant. 78 00:09:20,240 --> 00:09:22,120 He must pay a penalty! 79 00:09:26,680 --> 00:09:33,040 Now you are married you can't flirt with other girls. 80 00:09:33,280 --> 00:09:36,760 You have to make do with your wife. 81 00:09:38,080 --> 00:09:40,400 Let's drink! 82 00:09:42,640 --> 00:09:48,240 Mum and dad, I wrote these few lines 83 00:09:48,920 --> 00:09:53,960 To tell you I am suffering 84 00:09:55,640 --> 00:09:59,560 Life is a struggle 85 00:10:01,040 --> 00:10:05,760 When you are so poor 86 00:10:07,400 --> 00:10:13,600 No clothes and nothing to eat 87 00:10:13,960 --> 00:10:20,200 But I will keep on studying 88 00:10:22,000 --> 00:10:27,120 I am now far away 89 00:10:28,680 --> 00:10:34,120 Far from all the ones I love 90 00:10:35,400 --> 00:10:39,640 My heart is cold and I feel lost 91 00:10:40,280 --> 00:10:45,720 I miss you every second of every day 92 00:11:17,560 --> 00:11:22,120 I thought nobody was home. Why is my wife as drunk as a pig? 93 00:11:24,760 --> 00:11:26,960 Why did you close the door? 94 00:11:27,480 --> 00:11:29,800 -It is open. -The other door? 95 00:11:30,120 --> 00:11:30,760 Yeah. 96 00:11:33,720 --> 00:11:35,600 I will wake up to light the fire... 97 00:11:35,800 --> 00:11:37,240 I must go to the People's Committee. 98 00:11:37,400 --> 00:11:39,080 You are too drunk, just go to the field. 99 00:11:42,400 --> 00:11:44,120 What are you talking about? 100 00:11:45,080 --> 00:11:49,160 You are so pissed and still talk to me like shit. 101 00:12:11,160 --> 00:12:16,080 Stop messing around or you will finish the work alone. 102 00:12:20,960 --> 00:12:22,440 Aim for the adults, too! 103 00:12:37,680 --> 00:12:39,960 Look at the camera, guys! 104 00:12:43,320 --> 00:12:45,880 Behave yourselves! 105 00:12:49,840 --> 00:12:51,240 My poor hear! 106 00:14:32,880 --> 00:14:35,120 I have an announcement to make: 107 00:14:35,400 --> 00:14:39,040 From next week I will teach you history, not civics. 108 00:14:40,080 --> 00:14:42,520 -Shall we start the class now? -Yes. 109 00:14:42,960 --> 00:14:45,120 Everybody, take out your books. 110 00:14:46,200 --> 00:14:52,320 A strong mind is crucial to overcoming dangers and avoiding temptations. 111 00:14:52,640 --> 00:14:54,320 Good, sit down. 112 00:14:55,120 --> 00:14:59,120 Let's consider the case of this boy who started to go out, 113 00:14:59,520 --> 00:15:01,600 drink beer and smoke. 114 00:15:01,880 --> 00:15:06,760 Then, he began skipping class and couldn't enter high school. 115 00:15:07,120 --> 00:15:12,320 He was depressed so he started to smoke pot. 116 00:15:12,640 --> 00:15:15,440 -Do you know what pot is? -No. 117 00:15:15,520 --> 00:15:17,600 No? Are you sure? 118 00:15:19,760 --> 00:15:22,280 And do you know what opium is? 119 00:15:22,480 --> 00:15:23,040 Yes. 120 00:15:23,120 --> 00:15:25,880 -Do your families grow poppies? -No. 121 00:15:26,680 --> 00:15:27,440 Sure? 122 00:15:28,880 --> 00:15:31,560 Raise your hand if you grow poppies. 123 00:15:34,000 --> 00:15:36,680 We do but I won't raise my hand. 124 00:15:37,200 --> 00:15:41,040 Why? Because it is illegal, right? 125 00:15:41,320 --> 00:15:43,480 The police may catch you. 126 00:15:43,720 --> 00:15:47,000 But if you have any don't tell anyone and give me a bit! 127 00:15:49,760 --> 00:15:53,560 -You don't want to be rich? -We do! 128 00:15:54,040 --> 00:15:58,080 Making money is good but you mustn't break the Law. 129 00:15:59,200 --> 00:16:01,880 What is the point of being rich if you end up in jail? 130 00:16:04,000 --> 00:16:07,160 Right! Let's move on to the next case... 131 00:16:30,400 --> 00:16:33,880 Our indigo is bigger than last year, mom. 132 00:16:36,440 --> 00:16:39,720 You are just taking two bundles? 133 00:17:38,960 --> 00:17:43,760 Don't play with the lime I will use it again. 134 00:17:50,000 --> 00:17:56,960 I make indigo for my daughters, Di and La, as they don't know how to do it. 135 00:18:00,240 --> 00:18:06,280 -La is married but she can't do it herself? -No, I must do it for her. 136 00:18:13,400 --> 00:18:18,760 Can I swap one of our chickens for this white one? 137 00:18:18,960 --> 00:18:21,480 -Which one do you want to swap? -The red one. 138 00:18:21,960 --> 00:18:25,160 You are stupid! Give them a white one. 139 00:18:25,400 --> 00:18:27,640 Our chicken is much bigger. 140 00:18:28,880 --> 00:18:31,040 Trading your rooster for this tiny thing! 141 00:18:31,680 --> 00:18:35,000 So young it won't lay eggs. 142 00:18:36,040 --> 00:18:37,800 It isn't that young. 143 00:19:20,520 --> 00:19:24,120 -What's your name? -Guess. 144 00:19:25,920 --> 00:19:28,840 -Come on... -I am shy. 145 00:19:30,520 --> 00:19:33,760 -Tell me. -You first. 146 00:19:34,880 --> 00:19:38,800 -I told you my name... -I forgot. 147 00:19:39,880 --> 00:19:41,120 So? 148 00:19:44,000 --> 00:19:46,000 My name is Pang. 149 00:19:47,520 --> 00:19:52,560 Last time you gave me another name! 150 00:19:56,040 --> 00:19:58,560 Tell me your name first. 151 00:19:59,920 --> 00:20:02,880 -My name is Pao. -Pao? 152 00:20:03,680 --> 00:20:08,720 -What is your name now? -My name is Di. 153 00:20:38,840 --> 00:20:41,000 -Hello, La. -Hi, Diem. 154 00:20:44,160 --> 00:20:49,200 Hey! You came to visit grandma. 155 00:21:04,200 --> 00:21:08,240 Don't hug her so tight, you cunt. 156 00:21:21,360 --> 00:21:24,600 My sister La left school in 2015. 157 00:21:26,920 --> 00:21:31,200 She was in high school when she got married? 158 00:21:31,600 --> 00:21:34,960 Yes, she was in her first year. 159 00:21:35,520 --> 00:21:41,520 She was kidnapped by her husband during the New Year celebration. 160 00:21:43,920 --> 00:21:47,640 That evening, my mother was drunk. 161 00:21:48,080 --> 00:21:52,680 Then she realised she hadn't seen La for a while. 162 00:21:53,080 --> 00:21:55,960 She asked me where she was. 163 00:21:56,280 --> 00:22:01,160 I thought she had returned to her boarding school. 164 00:22:02,080 --> 00:22:05,480 After feeding the pig I saw mum crying on the phone 165 00:22:05,640 --> 00:22:10,040 and the neighbours told me my sister had been kidnapped. 166 00:22:11,120 --> 00:22:13,360 I was speechless. 167 00:22:15,600 --> 00:22:21,120 She wanted to have fun but it was the end of her childhood. 168 00:22:21,520 --> 00:22:23,800 -Her husband trapped her? -Yes. 169 00:22:24,680 --> 00:22:27,320 I won't be that naive. 170 00:22:27,920 --> 00:22:30,520 What if it happens to you? 171 00:22:31,280 --> 00:22:34,160 -I don't fear that! -You should. 172 00:22:38,760 --> 00:22:42,640 How can I work on such a steep hill? 173 00:23:39,160 --> 00:23:42,040 This variety of rice is quite short. 174 00:23:44,640 --> 00:23:47,480 We won't have enough rice to eat. 175 00:23:48,680 --> 00:23:51,880 If you don't work you won't have rice. 176 00:23:53,080 --> 00:23:58,040 Do you think your kids will take care of you? They hate you! 177 00:23:58,840 --> 00:24:01,720 When you are drunk just sleep and leave them alone. 178 00:24:02,360 --> 00:24:11,640 You are insulting and blaming us for everything. 179 00:24:12,880 --> 00:24:18,560 But you are always too wasted to work. 180 00:24:27,360 --> 00:24:30,840 This man has no dignity. 181 00:24:31,800 --> 00:24:35,520 Even our son-in-law hates him. 182 00:24:36,720 --> 00:24:42,440 Nobody respects him but he still thinks he is the king. 183 00:24:48,240 --> 00:24:53,000 -He never lights the fire, never feeds the pigs... -Can't you talk about something else? 184 00:24:54,880 --> 00:24:56,960 Stop arguing, guys! 185 00:24:57,400 --> 00:25:02,440 So when she fucks someone else I shouldn't say anything? 186 00:25:03,480 --> 00:25:07,120 I know you are cheating on me. 187 00:25:38,880 --> 00:25:41,840 How many people are in your class today? 188 00:25:42,800 --> 00:25:44,200 37. 189 00:25:44,720 --> 00:25:46,760 Where is your red scarf? 190 00:25:49,680 --> 00:25:51,280 What is his name? 191 00:25:52,760 --> 00:25:53,640 Sang? 192 00:25:57,200 --> 00:26:00,360 -How do you spell it? -With an S. 193 00:26:09,160 --> 00:26:11,280 -You found the answer? -Yes. 194 00:26:13,160 --> 00:26:16,480 Who skipped class yesterday? 195 00:26:16,920 --> 00:26:18,160 Four people. 196 00:26:18,720 --> 00:26:19,720 You first. 197 00:26:20,400 --> 00:26:23,360 I was in hospital. 198 00:26:25,080 --> 00:26:27,760 -You asked for permission? -Yes. 199 00:26:28,360 --> 00:26:31,080 Who else didn't come yesterday? 200 00:26:31,480 --> 00:26:34,320 -Which village do you live in? -So Chua, Madam. 201 00:26:34,600 --> 00:26:35,400 So? 202 00:26:36,000 --> 00:26:38,760 I had to look after the buffaloes. 203 00:26:39,400 --> 00:26:45,840 If you miss school for that your parents will get a $3 fine. 204 00:26:46,520 --> 00:26:48,000 What about you? 205 00:26:48,560 --> 00:26:52,360 I was helping my grandma harvesting her corn field. 206 00:26:52,520 --> 00:26:54,800 I can't accept this excuse. 207 00:26:55,280 --> 00:26:57,840 You have an important exam this year. 208 00:26:58,080 --> 00:26:59,720 You must be focused. 209 00:27:00,280 --> 00:27:03,640 You must study first and help your parents later. 210 00:27:43,240 --> 00:27:48,200 -It is almost done. -Let's have a break, my back hurts. 211 00:27:48,680 --> 00:27:54,000 Where can we rest? There is mud everywhere. 212 00:29:21,320 --> 00:29:23,480 I will need the whole bamboo. 213 00:30:18,640 --> 00:30:20,560 It will catch fire! 214 00:30:31,000 --> 00:30:33,600 What kind of girl would you like to be? 215 00:30:34,080 --> 00:30:35,880 What kind of girl? 216 00:30:37,000 --> 00:30:38,800 I don't know. 217 00:30:40,080 --> 00:30:41,600 No idea. 218 00:30:42,080 --> 00:30:43,600 No idea. 219 00:30:44,840 --> 00:30:46,560 What about your studies? 220 00:30:47,800 --> 00:30:51,640 I want to study a lot and make plenty of money! 221 00:30:54,520 --> 00:30:58,360 And then I will have many lovers. 222 00:30:58,600 --> 00:30:59,680 Ugh! 223 00:31:00,360 --> 00:31:08,080 Then when you die you must carry their dicks forever! 224 00:31:08,160 --> 00:31:09,720 I am okay with that. 225 00:31:26,640 --> 00:31:30,120 -My glass is still full. -I don't care. 226 00:31:30,640 --> 00:31:35,240 Drink it up and stop cheating. 227 00:31:37,040 --> 00:31:41,560 Let's go around the table and everyone must sing. 228 00:31:41,640 --> 00:31:45,200 -I don't know how to sing. -Then you drink. 229 00:31:45,400 --> 00:31:49,120 -Can I sing in Vietnamese? -No, just in Hmong. 230 00:32:03,040 --> 00:32:04,520 Your turn now. 231 00:32:06,720 --> 00:32:09,080 Wait a second, her turn first. 232 00:32:10,320 --> 00:32:12,800 I thought we were a team. 233 00:32:13,760 --> 00:32:16,120 No, you sing or you drink! 234 00:32:16,320 --> 00:32:19,240 You have four more to drink! 235 00:32:20,320 --> 00:32:23,680 -Sing or drink! -You know I can't sing. 236 00:32:25,080 --> 00:32:32,840 "I would like to marry you but you treat me like a piece of shit" 237 00:32:48,160 --> 00:32:51,360 -Is it okay? -Yes. Let it go, Diem. 238 00:32:51,560 --> 00:32:55,440 -It is quite heavy. -I told you it is okay. 239 00:32:59,480 --> 00:33:02,680 It is not too heavy, the sticks are too long. 240 00:33:32,600 --> 00:33:35,240 This New Year is no fun at all. 241 00:33:36,040 --> 00:33:40,920 My ex is flirting with other girls, it makes me jealous. 242 00:33:55,880 --> 00:34:00,000 You have thrown your clothes everywhere after partying, Di. 243 00:34:00,920 --> 00:34:02,440 I am cleaning now. 244 00:34:04,280 --> 00:34:08,040 Hang it up or the embroidery will get moldy. 245 00:34:08,280 --> 00:34:10,440 It has been drying for a few days. 246 00:34:19,280 --> 00:34:21,320 You took my necklace? 247 00:34:21,720 --> 00:34:22,680 What? 248 00:34:23,000 --> 00:34:23,960 I saw you! 249 00:34:24,440 --> 00:34:26,320 -The one you gave me? -Yes. 250 00:34:26,440 --> 00:34:27,760 I gave it to my boyfriend. 251 00:34:28,000 --> 00:34:30,600 It is silver, get it back or I will kill you! 252 00:34:31,920 --> 00:34:34,240 Who do you think you are? 253 00:34:38,440 --> 00:34:39,760 You are stupid! 254 00:34:43,880 --> 00:34:47,720 Get it back or you are dead. 255 00:34:49,560 --> 00:34:51,360 Hang up this jacket 256 00:34:52,280 --> 00:34:55,440 and stop acting like a princess. 257 00:34:56,160 --> 00:34:59,480 This guy makes you so horny. 258 00:34:59,680 --> 00:35:01,840 -No, he doesn't. -I will kick your ass. 259 00:35:02,000 --> 00:35:03,040 How do you know? 260 00:35:03,320 --> 00:35:07,160 -He brought you back home. -Who fucking told you that? 261 00:35:07,440 --> 00:35:10,040 I came back with a different guy. 262 00:35:11,120 --> 00:35:16,200 My boyfriend dumped me for another girl. Are you happy now? 263 00:35:17,840 --> 00:35:21,480 This guy is a fucking rat. 264 00:35:23,440 --> 00:35:25,520 I have never hit on him. 265 00:35:25,800 --> 00:35:27,760 Everybody saw you. 266 00:35:28,280 --> 00:35:29,840 And you trust them? 267 00:35:34,880 --> 00:35:37,320 This is only gossip. 268 00:35:40,360 --> 00:35:42,880 I will sell you for cheap. 269 00:35:44,600 --> 00:35:46,600 That's what you want? 270 00:36:24,400 --> 00:36:27,480 Have a sip... It is hot. 271 00:36:45,880 --> 00:36:48,440 All men are bastards. 272 00:36:51,600 --> 00:36:57,320 Nowadays, girls are looking for rich men with nice cars and big houses... 273 00:36:57,760 --> 00:36:59,760 That is absolutely right. 274 00:37:02,360 --> 00:37:05,800 My boyfriend was not only poor but also unfaithful... 275 00:37:06,360 --> 00:37:10,000 Now I don't love him anymore. 276 00:37:12,360 --> 00:37:13,760 Let me tell you. 277 00:37:14,400 --> 00:37:18,640 For the National Women's Day... 278 00:37:18,920 --> 00:37:22,720 he took another girl out. 279 00:37:24,960 --> 00:37:28,760 One day I couldn't go out so he invited another girl. 280 00:37:30,800 --> 00:37:35,960 Then I read on Facebook that he was in love with another girl. 281 00:37:36,320 --> 00:37:38,800 Once I saw a girl on his bike. 282 00:37:39,000 --> 00:37:48,360 And when I posted his picture on my page a girl said he was her lover. 283 00:37:50,120 --> 00:37:53,040 But now I am free! 284 00:37:53,800 --> 00:37:55,640 I can hit on whoever I want. 285 00:37:56,040 --> 00:38:01,000 -What if Di wants to get back with him? -I would beat her to death. 286 00:38:08,640 --> 00:38:09,920 Check this out, Khu. 287 00:38:10,800 --> 00:38:13,600 He wants to get back with me, Diem! 288 00:38:13,880 --> 00:38:15,280 What should I say? 289 00:38:17,720 --> 00:38:19,720 Just say you don't want him back. 290 00:38:20,160 --> 00:38:23,400 I read you his message but turn off the camera. 291 00:38:24,080 --> 00:38:25,040 -Why? 292 00:38:25,640 --> 00:38:29,840 "I don't know what to say. I am sorry I dumped you... 293 00:38:30,000 --> 00:38:33,480 "Please forgive me and take me back." 294 00:38:33,800 --> 00:38:35,840 The best thing you can do is not reply. 295 00:38:37,800 --> 00:38:39,960 What are you writing, stupid? 296 00:38:40,120 --> 00:38:43,000 I won't answer. My mother hates him anyway. 297 00:38:43,200 --> 00:38:44,440 Let me see. 298 00:38:47,600 --> 00:38:48,480 I am mad at him. 299 00:39:37,560 --> 00:39:39,840 Is it Sunday already? 300 00:39:43,320 --> 00:39:45,920 In a week, I am back at school. 301 00:39:46,400 --> 00:39:49,360 Lunar New Year went so quickly. 302 00:39:50,240 --> 00:39:52,680 Because we are having fun. 303 00:39:53,440 --> 00:39:57,800 Have fun but don't cry if you get kidnapped. 304 00:40:02,040 --> 00:40:05,640 New Year is the season of bride kidnapping 305 00:40:06,640 --> 00:40:09,120 and it is allowed. 306 00:40:09,800 --> 00:40:12,240 Mum means that 307 00:40:12,880 --> 00:40:15,400 if I am kidnapped I must cope on my own. 308 00:40:15,760 --> 00:40:17,480 -You would get married? -No! 309 00:40:17,840 --> 00:40:21,520 Only a stupid guy would kidnap me. 310 00:40:25,680 --> 00:40:31,800 If she gets married who will feed the pig while I get drunk? 311 00:40:34,160 --> 00:40:37,840 I would cry and hold her back. 312 00:40:41,520 --> 00:40:43,560 She is too young. 313 00:40:44,240 --> 00:40:46,760 -What is a good age? -Eighteen. 314 00:40:47,680 --> 00:40:51,480 But I am afraid she doesn't listen to me. 315 00:41:45,760 --> 00:41:49,960 My legs are too short. 316 00:41:53,960 --> 00:41:56,320 Let me get down! 317 00:41:57,120 --> 00:41:59,000 Help me, Diem! 318 00:42:45,840 --> 00:42:50,160 He is just a friend. You want to see his message? 319 00:42:50,600 --> 00:42:53,600 You deleted the hot ones. 320 00:42:57,480 --> 00:42:59,480 Now boys just use their phones... 321 00:43:45,960 --> 00:43:49,480 How long have you been waiting here? -Hours! 322 00:43:52,640 --> 00:43:56,240 -Where have you been all this time? -It wasn't that long. 323 00:43:59,920 --> 00:44:02,040 Don't follow us. 324 00:44:02,440 --> 00:44:05,000 What did you say? 325 00:44:05,560 --> 00:44:07,640 I am a decent man. 326 00:44:07,960 --> 00:44:12,040 Before marriage, I would ask her parents. I won't kidnap her. 327 00:44:12,280 --> 00:44:13,360 Alright. 328 00:44:40,280 --> 00:44:41,160 Di? 329 00:44:42,280 --> 00:44:45,320 Where are you, Di? Come back immediately. 330 00:44:49,200 --> 00:44:50,080 What? 331 00:44:53,560 --> 00:44:55,240 You are in the valley? 332 00:44:59,080 --> 00:45:00,520 Close to Hang Da market? 333 00:45:01,640 --> 00:45:04,280 Are you happy now? Come back immediately! 334 00:45:05,640 --> 00:45:08,160 What are you doing there? 335 00:45:10,640 --> 00:45:11,400 What? 336 00:45:15,000 --> 00:45:16,960 Where exactly? 337 00:45:24,360 --> 00:45:30,640 Don't listen to him. Get off his motorbike right now. 338 00:45:33,200 --> 00:45:36,240 -Do you know who took Di? -Yes. 339 00:45:36,360 --> 00:45:37,280 Give me his number. 340 00:45:37,920 --> 00:45:40,280 -Do you know where he lives? -Yes. 341 00:45:40,360 --> 00:45:44,000 I want his number to be sure he won't sell her. 342 00:45:44,160 --> 00:45:50,320 -Don't worry, he is a friend of mine. -These kids are terrible! 343 00:45:51,040 --> 00:45:54,480 -You really know his family? -Yes, they invited me several times. 344 00:45:54,680 --> 00:45:57,560 -Is he the eldest son? -No, the youngest. 345 00:45:58,400 --> 00:46:01,600 -His parents are still alive? -Yes, they are. 346 00:46:03,280 --> 00:46:05,240 Are they rich? 347 00:46:06,000 --> 00:46:09,280 Of course not, they are Hmong! 348 00:46:09,400 --> 00:46:12,920 -What is the boy's name? -Vang. 349 00:46:13,800 --> 00:46:17,120 -He didn't answer your calls? -No. 350 00:46:17,520 --> 00:46:20,240 No need to call back, I will do it later. 351 00:46:20,560 --> 00:46:23,960 If you know his family I feel reassured. 352 00:46:29,760 --> 00:46:34,200 She is evil. I wanna smack her face. 353 00:46:36,000 --> 00:46:40,160 You harass her non stop, you shouldn't be surprised. 354 00:46:43,200 --> 00:46:46,760 You insult her all day long so she wants to take revenge. 355 00:46:49,360 --> 00:46:52,440 Let's take your daughter back. 356 00:46:53,000 --> 00:46:54,840 No. 357 00:46:55,280 --> 00:46:59,960 I could but I won't do that, it is their issue. 358 00:47:00,600 --> 00:47:06,200 As parents, we mustn't get involved. 359 00:47:08,960 --> 00:47:11,440 Don't cry, Diem. 360 00:47:11,600 --> 00:47:14,080 Di got what she deserves. 361 00:47:17,560 --> 00:47:19,680 Don't worry about Di. 362 00:47:20,120 --> 00:47:22,600 Nobody forced her to follow this guy. 363 00:47:23,440 --> 00:47:26,480 Di just behaved like her mother did. 364 00:47:27,160 --> 00:47:31,880 My wife wasn't allowed to go out after 4pm 365 00:47:32,520 --> 00:47:37,400 but she sneaked out and I kidnapped her in a flash! 366 00:47:45,000 --> 00:47:45,960 Go to sleep. 367 00:47:46,120 --> 00:47:49,840 I can't sleep. I am too sad. 368 00:47:51,560 --> 00:47:54,960 My husband is drunk all day. 369 00:47:55,600 --> 00:47:59,160 Nobody will support me now. 370 00:47:59,520 --> 00:48:02,600 Both La and Di are gone. 371 00:48:03,400 --> 00:48:04,960 I am on my own now. 372 00:48:06,080 --> 00:48:12,520 When I go out drinking nobody will cook or feed the pigs for me. 373 00:48:14,240 --> 00:48:16,080 Nothing to do but cry. 374 00:48:25,840 --> 00:48:27,000 Di? 375 00:48:27,840 --> 00:48:29,520 We are always arguing 376 00:48:29,720 --> 00:48:33,000 but since you have gone I can't stop crying. 377 00:48:33,280 --> 00:48:35,840 The house is so quiet now. 378 00:48:36,080 --> 00:48:40,040 Tie your belt tight, don't let him touch you. 379 00:48:40,840 --> 00:48:49,960 I am alone at home, your dad was drunk and insulted me all day. 380 00:48:50,560 --> 00:48:55,120 Yesterday we were arguing about your clothes and now you are gone! 381 00:48:56,080 --> 00:48:59,600 Keep your clothes while you sleep. 382 00:49:00,200 --> 00:49:08,400 You must say you want to sleep in his sister's bed. 383 00:49:10,480 --> 00:49:14,680 Or just sit by the fireplace and try to stay awake. 384 00:49:16,720 --> 00:49:17,640 Okay? 385 00:49:18,080 --> 00:49:21,000 Are you about to go to sleep? 386 00:49:23,040 --> 00:49:26,920 Can you hear me, Di? 387 00:49:28,520 --> 00:49:29,440 Di? 388 00:49:40,000 --> 00:49:41,200 Buffalo. 389 00:49:43,240 --> 00:49:44,320 Buffalo. 390 00:50:26,920 --> 00:50:28,880 Where are you? 391 00:50:31,720 --> 00:50:35,040 They are here, come back quickly. 392 00:50:46,560 --> 00:50:51,360 -What do you want? -You know something is happening... 393 00:50:51,680 --> 00:50:57,960 -I have nothing to say. -We need to talk, please help me. 394 00:50:58,800 --> 00:51:01,520 Alright let's talk then... 395 00:51:10,440 --> 00:51:13,280 Why are you giving me tobacco? 396 00:51:15,760 --> 00:51:18,720 Why should I accept it? 397 00:51:20,160 --> 00:51:25,640 Your daughter is now part of my family. 398 00:51:25,840 --> 00:51:28,480 No, she is not. 399 00:51:31,800 --> 00:51:35,680 -We should discuss it. -There is nothing to talk about. 400 00:51:37,360 --> 00:51:44,480 I want to ask you about the dowry and the ceremony fees 401 00:51:44,600 --> 00:51:54,320 then I will take your request to my family. 402 00:51:55,280 --> 00:51:57,680 There is nothing wrong. 403 00:51:58,160 --> 00:51:59,560 Drink it! 404 00:52:02,280 --> 00:52:04,840 It is not a commitment. 405 00:52:09,000 --> 00:52:12,920 Let's ask for $2000 for the dowry 406 00:52:13,880 --> 00:52:18,520 $300 of presents for Di's relatives 407 00:52:23,440 --> 00:52:27,160 10kg of chicken, 100kg of pork and 20 litres of wine. 408 00:52:33,760 --> 00:52:36,440 Come here, stupid. 409 00:52:38,840 --> 00:52:41,160 How much are you asking for? 410 00:52:41,400 --> 00:52:45,680 I am asking for money for our relatives; two envelopes... 411 00:52:45,840 --> 00:52:48,280 -Ask for three at least. -Three envelopes? 412 00:52:48,720 --> 00:52:50,760 Okay, what else? 413 00:52:52,640 --> 00:52:55,840 -100kg of pork and... -10kg of chicken. 414 00:52:55,960 --> 00:53:00,840 -30 litres of wine and 10kg of chicken? -No, only 20 litres of wine. 415 00:53:01,440 --> 00:53:03,480 Come back here. 416 00:53:06,560 --> 00:53:11,480 Be careful, don't rush it. 417 00:53:13,600 --> 00:53:19,040 Try to be clear. Don't fuck up like you did for La's wedding. 418 00:53:36,680 --> 00:53:39,240 Let's all have a drink. 419 00:53:41,440 --> 00:53:48,680 I have only got two daughters and the eldest got married very young. 420 00:53:49,800 --> 00:53:57,120 She is now 17 and already pregnant with her second child. 421 00:53:57,400 --> 00:53:58,160 Really? 422 00:53:58,480 --> 00:54:01,560 She was married at Di's age and I cried a lot. 423 00:54:01,760 --> 00:54:03,720 How old is Di now? 424 00:54:04,040 --> 00:54:05,880 14 and a half. 425 00:54:06,040 --> 00:54:09,800 My daughter was married at this age. 426 00:54:11,640 --> 00:54:19,040 My daughter also got married at 14 and I accepted it. 427 00:54:20,800 --> 00:54:27,440 It is always sad when a daughter leaves home. 428 00:54:33,400 --> 00:54:42,200 My second daughter was sold in China, I never heard from her again. 429 00:54:44,400 --> 00:54:46,800 Everybody has a drink? 430 00:54:47,440 --> 00:54:52,720 I don't know if the kids will actually get married but thanks for the food anyway. 431 00:54:53,160 --> 00:54:57,520 We will soon be one family. I am sure there are no obstacles. 432 00:54:59,120 --> 00:55:01,080 I also want you to know 433 00:55:01,640 --> 00:55:04,600 that our family is Catholic. 434 00:55:06,360 --> 00:55:10,280 -Don't worry about that. -It is no big deal but... 435 00:55:10,880 --> 00:55:14,720 Let's drink to that and thanks again for the food. 436 00:55:15,080 --> 00:55:18,920 It is not important but I wanted to let you know... 437 00:55:19,600 --> 00:55:23,080 I have accepted your wine but... 438 00:55:23,880 --> 00:55:29,320 you must bring the kids here tomorrow to hear what they want to do. 439 00:55:30,520 --> 00:55:34,240 We aren't against this marriage but it must be the kids' decision. 440 00:55:34,480 --> 00:55:38,440 The final decision belongs to the kids. 441 00:55:38,720 --> 00:55:47,640 If our daughter refuses this marriage, please be understanding. 442 00:55:49,280 --> 00:55:50,840 Be careful on your way back home. 443 00:55:51,960 --> 00:55:54,320 Everything will be okay. 444 00:55:54,520 --> 00:55:58,760 When they are married you can visit your daughter at our place. 445 00:55:58,960 --> 00:56:05,480 Just ask for the house of the Black Hmong family called Thao. 446 00:56:05,760 --> 00:56:07,200 Alright. 447 00:56:07,320 --> 00:56:10,240 We would be honoured to welcome you. 448 00:56:11,080 --> 00:56:14,800 If my daughter accepts the marriage I will visit you for sure. 449 00:56:54,440 --> 00:56:59,120 His father drinks even more than yours but you still want to marry him? 450 00:56:59,400 --> 00:57:03,360 I don't want to marry him. 451 00:57:06,720 --> 00:57:10,560 His father is a real alcoholic. 452 00:57:10,960 --> 00:57:12,400 Are you enjoying it? 453 00:57:13,240 --> 00:57:14,480 Stop it mum! 454 00:57:15,640 --> 00:57:17,880 One day there and you know it all. 455 00:57:18,960 --> 00:57:19,960 Yeah. 456 00:57:20,640 --> 00:57:22,560 You really picked the perfect guy! 457 00:57:23,320 --> 00:57:23,880 No. 458 00:57:25,640 --> 00:57:28,280 He will tell he loves you 459 00:57:28,440 --> 00:57:31,080 and that he will do anything for you. 460 00:57:31,480 --> 00:57:34,000 But you mustn't trust him. 461 00:57:34,800 --> 00:57:38,440 -How do you know? -It is always the same. 462 00:57:38,800 --> 00:57:40,760 Never marry a sweet talking guy! 463 00:57:40,960 --> 00:57:44,120 He will beat you up just like your father does. 464 00:57:44,520 --> 00:57:49,400 He will be an alcoholic and make your life miserable. 465 00:57:52,600 --> 00:57:59,000 Use your head instead of acting like a bitch. 466 00:58:01,480 --> 00:58:08,000 Do whatever you want but don't blame me afterwards. 467 00:58:09,040 --> 00:58:12,560 If your life is miserable you must cope with it. 468 00:58:13,560 --> 00:58:15,280 I know. 469 00:59:22,320 --> 00:59:24,120 Is anybody here? 470 00:59:31,960 --> 00:59:32,840 Here you are. 471 00:59:32,920 --> 00:59:36,080 -Can we come in? -Please, come in. 472 00:59:52,640 --> 00:59:57,040 Why are you sad? Give me a smile! 473 01:00:18,400 --> 01:00:20,360 Come here, Di. 474 01:00:33,520 --> 01:00:35,960 Smile, for God's sake. 475 01:00:36,520 --> 01:00:39,680 Let's talk about your feelings now. 476 01:00:40,080 --> 01:00:46,360 Vang, come here son. We need to know what is in your hearts. 477 01:00:46,880 --> 01:00:51,160 If you want to get married I wish you the best. 478 01:00:52,400 --> 01:00:56,600 If you don't, I would feel sad beyond words. 479 01:00:56,880 --> 01:01:02,280 If you want to get married just share a glass of wine. 480 01:01:03,080 --> 01:01:06,640 Then you can live together. 481 01:01:07,120 --> 01:01:11,680 But if you decide to break up you must have kind words, Di! 482 01:01:13,280 --> 01:01:20,480 You knew the consequences when you flirted with Vang. 483 01:01:21,040 --> 01:01:23,040 Now, you must face the music. 484 01:01:24,920 --> 01:01:27,840 It is time to take a decision. 485 01:01:28,320 --> 01:01:30,960 Follow us to your new home. 486 01:01:32,720 --> 01:01:36,760 Just one glass and your union is sealed. 487 01:01:37,720 --> 01:01:40,320 Make up your mind. 488 01:01:54,960 --> 01:01:58,440 You want a punch? 489 01:02:03,000 --> 01:02:05,600 Do whatever you want, I don't care. 490 01:02:07,160 --> 01:02:08,680 Leave me alone, M. Thao! 491 01:02:11,000 --> 01:02:12,480 You think this is funny? 492 01:02:12,760 --> 01:02:16,880 -I am serious. -Really? I will kick your ass. 493 01:02:22,680 --> 01:02:25,200 You broke her camera! 494 01:02:26,680 --> 01:02:28,520 Look, it is broken. 495 01:02:31,880 --> 01:02:33,320 Go away, M. Thao! 496 01:02:34,200 --> 01:02:34,960 Get lost! 497 01:03:03,520 --> 01:03:12,240 Ask him to wait a few years. You are too young and want to study. 498 01:03:12,480 --> 01:03:18,080 If he can't wait he should marry someone else. 499 01:03:18,360 --> 01:03:21,240 I want to break up, not postpone the marriage. 500 01:03:21,840 --> 01:03:23,480 Up to you. 501 01:03:23,840 --> 01:03:26,880 Everybody likes him but I don't. 502 01:03:27,160 --> 01:03:30,160 No one can chose for you. 503 01:03:36,520 --> 01:03:42,840 I don't want to marry him now, or ever. 504 01:03:43,320 --> 01:03:44,800 It is your decision. 505 01:03:47,320 --> 01:03:49,760 Pour Vang a glass and explain your choice. 506 01:03:49,960 --> 01:03:53,920 Send them away mum or I will hide at school. 507 01:03:54,600 --> 01:03:58,240 -Can we have lunch first? -No. 508 01:03:59,440 --> 01:04:00,200 Di! 509 01:04:02,160 --> 01:04:03,840 Alright, I am leaving. 510 01:04:13,360 --> 01:04:15,160 Finish your bowls, kids. 511 01:04:29,680 --> 01:04:32,760 Your mother is drunk. 512 01:04:33,040 --> 01:04:38,560 She will accept the marriage and your life will be done. 513 01:04:39,800 --> 01:04:41,120 Trust me. 514 01:04:41,920 --> 01:04:47,800 Let's go back home, your teachers are lying. 515 01:04:50,000 --> 01:04:54,120 Hiding here makes our family lose face. 516 01:04:55,080 --> 01:04:58,120 She will follow you when the guy's family have gone. 517 01:04:58,240 --> 01:04:59,840 They are already gone. 518 01:05:00,480 --> 01:05:02,480 They are waiting just here. 519 01:05:02,840 --> 01:05:04,440 No, they are gone. 520 01:05:06,360 --> 01:05:07,960 Here they are! 521 01:05:08,240 --> 01:05:10,440 I won't let them take Di. 522 01:05:10,640 --> 01:05:14,360 Wait for the head teacher! 523 01:05:14,800 --> 01:05:16,720 Wait here or I will call the police. 524 01:05:16,800 --> 01:05:20,320 I don't care about the police, this is my daughter. 525 01:05:20,520 --> 01:05:21,920 Calm down. 526 01:05:22,160 --> 01:05:24,040 Leave my daughter alone. 527 01:05:31,240 --> 01:05:33,920 I guess I did something wrong. 528 01:05:35,080 --> 01:05:36,560 Oh really? 529 01:05:41,680 --> 01:05:48,400 I am still a child, I don't know why I kidnapped her. 530 01:05:53,800 --> 01:05:58,640 It will prove to be a great move if she agrees to marry me 531 01:05:58,880 --> 01:06:04,960 but if she refuses I would feel terrible because... 532 01:06:06,800 --> 01:06:10,920 It is difficult to explain. 533 01:06:11,720 --> 01:06:17,200 I would be blessed to have a wife like her. 534 01:06:17,520 --> 01:06:22,280 I don't know what my future will be if she refuses... 535 01:06:22,560 --> 01:06:28,840 I quit school last year because my family is poor. 536 01:06:30,960 --> 01:06:34,160 I am lost. I don't know how it will end. 537 01:06:34,520 --> 01:06:37,000 Time will decide. 538 01:06:37,960 --> 01:06:44,160 I think Di is in love with a guy called Su. 539 01:06:45,240 --> 01:06:47,720 Last night she wrote sweet words to him. 540 01:06:48,040 --> 01:06:54,200 I was sitting next to her and could read everything. 541 01:06:55,720 --> 01:06:58,200 It drove me mad. 542 01:06:58,480 --> 01:07:02,520 I was so angry I punched a wall. 543 01:07:02,960 --> 01:07:04,640 I hurt my hand. 544 01:07:05,280 --> 01:07:06,720 I lost control. 545 01:07:06,880 --> 01:07:09,040 Come here, Vang. 546 01:07:10,840 --> 01:07:12,120 Excuse me. 547 01:07:15,680 --> 01:07:17,640 Can you speak Vietnamese, madam? 548 01:07:18,160 --> 01:07:20,400 Not much. 549 01:07:24,680 --> 01:07:28,160 As representatives of the school 550 01:07:28,560 --> 01:07:30,960 and of the People's Committee, 551 01:07:31,600 --> 01:07:37,280 we were informed of Di's marriage proposal. 552 01:07:37,960 --> 01:07:46,120 So we decided to come and meet both families. 553 01:07:46,520 --> 01:07:51,200 We hope you understand our position. 554 01:07:51,760 --> 01:07:54,280 Sorry if you find this intrusive 555 01:07:54,560 --> 01:07:56,800 but Di is under the legal age. 556 01:07:57,360 --> 01:07:59,840 Same for the boy. 557 01:08:00,440 --> 01:08:04,640 The Vietnamese law doesn't make any distinction between ethnic groups: 558 01:08:05,000 --> 01:08:08,680 we are all equal in the eyes of the law. 559 01:08:10,000 --> 01:08:12,160 When I was at his place 560 01:08:12,360 --> 01:08:15,480 I told Vang I will go back home today and stay there. 561 01:08:17,080 --> 01:08:18,000 -You told him? -Yes. 562 01:08:18,760 --> 01:08:20,120 Di accepted my proposal. 563 01:08:20,360 --> 01:08:22,320 She said she would live with you? 564 01:08:22,640 --> 01:08:23,680 I didn't say that, teacher. 565 01:08:25,040 --> 01:08:29,880 I can show you the message she sent me on Facebook. 566 01:08:30,440 --> 01:08:33,840 She may have sent you a nice message 567 01:08:34,120 --> 01:08:38,880 but we are talking about your future, not flirting online. 568 01:08:39,200 --> 01:08:46,040 I just said I would meet him once to see what would happen... 569 01:08:48,840 --> 01:08:52,240 You are about to break the law. 570 01:08:52,760 --> 01:08:56,960 Of course you are free to see and love each other. 571 01:08:57,280 --> 01:09:00,080 We will never judge you for that. 572 01:09:00,560 --> 01:09:04,720 I will tell you something, young man. 573 01:09:05,280 --> 01:09:08,440 Your love affair is none of our business 574 01:09:08,840 --> 01:09:11,600 but there is a legal age for marriage. 575 01:09:12,000 --> 01:09:16,640 You learnt about these issues at school, right? 576 01:09:17,160 --> 01:09:22,640 In a relationship, you must have the full consent of your partner. 577 01:09:23,760 --> 01:09:29,600 If you don't respect her she will feel oppressed. 578 01:09:30,680 --> 01:09:33,920 Feelings must be sincere. 579 01:09:34,560 --> 01:09:37,760 You can't force her to love you. 580 01:09:38,640 --> 01:09:40,560 We call that abuse. 581 01:09:41,520 --> 01:09:45,440 Your parents should not allow it. 582 01:09:45,960 --> 01:09:50,680 You are underage, your parents will be punished if you get married. 583 01:09:52,640 --> 01:09:59,200 Di wants to study until she reaches the legal age of marriage. 584 01:09:59,720 --> 01:10:05,120 You taught me about the legal age of marriage. 585 01:10:05,840 --> 01:10:10,600 Girls must be 18 to get married. 586 01:10:10,960 --> 01:10:13,840 I want to continue my studies anyway. 587 01:10:15,600 --> 01:10:19,520 We are not rejecting you, Vang 588 01:10:19,920 --> 01:10:24,840 but if you get married now you will have legal issues. 589 01:10:25,840 --> 01:10:30,040 Your child won't get a birth certificate... 590 01:10:32,240 --> 01:10:34,320 We must go back to school. 591 01:10:35,000 --> 01:10:37,840 We will let you find a solution by yourselves. 592 01:10:54,280 --> 01:10:55,720 Beat it, man. 593 01:10:57,920 --> 01:11:00,840 I won't go anywhere with you. 594 01:11:07,920 --> 01:11:13,320 Even if they get married Di must still live here to go to school. 595 01:11:13,840 --> 01:11:17,400 Vang should go back home for now. 596 01:11:18,160 --> 01:11:25,560 I am not opposed to this marriage but I don't want to make a rash decision. 597 01:11:26,680 --> 01:11:35,040 After Di completes her studies they can decide if they have a future together. 598 01:11:35,720 --> 01:11:38,600 As a mother I feel useless at this point. 599 01:11:39,560 --> 01:11:42,400 Of course they have a future together. 600 01:11:42,840 --> 01:11:47,600 Things went so far, you should now consider them a couple. 601 01:11:48,760 --> 01:11:50,520 Let's drink to that. 602 01:11:59,880 --> 01:12:03,080 I don't know what to do. 603 01:12:03,320 --> 01:12:05,680 Did Vang drink the "break up" wine? 604 01:12:05,880 --> 01:12:11,480 No, his family told him to refuse if he is determined to marry me. 605 01:12:13,280 --> 01:12:19,200 I always call him by his family name to drive him mad. 606 01:12:19,800 --> 01:12:21,400 Why does mum like him? 607 01:12:21,680 --> 01:12:23,560 His family name? So rude! 608 01:12:26,520 --> 01:12:28,960 He is good-looking. 609 01:12:29,720 --> 01:12:33,400 -Will you come to my house? -No. 610 01:12:33,640 --> 01:12:37,400 -You don't like me anymore? -Sure I like you. 611 01:12:37,960 --> 01:12:39,680 I feel like kidnapping a girl. 612 01:12:40,160 --> 01:12:42,600 I will kidnap Diem, okay? 613 01:12:43,280 --> 01:12:47,320 Yes, kidnap Diem to marry Co! 614 01:12:52,080 --> 01:12:54,520 Can I kidnap you for my son? 615 01:12:55,680 --> 01:12:58,880 -I caught you. -No, no. 616 01:13:00,080 --> 01:13:03,240 Alright, I kidnap Mao. 617 01:13:03,600 --> 01:13:06,400 Come on daddy! I need a new mother. 618 01:13:15,280 --> 01:13:19,800 Tonight Diem will sleep with Co and Di with Vang, okay? 619 01:13:20,000 --> 01:13:23,480 Are you fucking crazy, dad? 620 01:13:23,880 --> 01:13:28,320 So your brother will sleep with Vang and you sleep with Diem. 621 01:13:28,400 --> 01:13:30,600 Shut up, you drunkard! 622 01:13:32,800 --> 01:13:37,480 Stop talking bullshit, I hate you. 623 01:13:37,720 --> 01:13:42,040 Whatever! I still love you, my daughter. 624 01:13:44,440 --> 01:13:47,400 Come on, let's go. 625 01:13:53,240 --> 01:13:57,040 I am leaving but you must act like an adult, Di. 626 01:13:57,680 --> 01:14:04,480 You can sleep with Diem but you mustn't run away. 627 01:14:04,640 --> 01:14:09,680 Whatever you decide you must provide a bed for Vang. 628 01:14:11,040 --> 01:14:14,080 You are a woman, not a man. 629 01:14:14,360 --> 01:14:16,200 Remember that. 630 01:14:16,840 --> 01:14:21,880 You had better not run away. 631 01:14:26,760 --> 01:14:29,640 Di, will you sleep with Vang or Diem? 632 01:15:00,400 --> 01:15:03,240 Do you hate me, Diem? 633 01:15:04,520 --> 01:15:05,320 Yes. 634 01:15:06,720 --> 01:15:07,920 I knew it. 635 01:15:08,720 --> 01:15:10,880 I saw your face today... 636 01:15:13,600 --> 01:15:16,120 Why do you hate me? 637 01:15:17,760 --> 01:15:23,240 Because you thought it was a game 638 01:15:24,920 --> 01:15:27,280 and you fell in a terrible trap. 639 01:15:39,360 --> 01:15:42,000 You never think about the consequences. 640 01:15:43,800 --> 01:15:47,200 I didn't think he was serious. 641 01:15:49,160 --> 01:15:52,240 -Now it is serious? -Really serious. 642 01:15:53,200 --> 01:15:56,760 I would rather die than marry him. 643 01:16:00,880 --> 01:16:02,400 I am stupid. 644 01:16:05,880 --> 01:16:07,720 So stupid. 645 01:16:09,400 --> 01:16:10,800 Hopeless. 646 01:16:14,840 --> 01:16:18,480 I am immature. 647 01:16:21,160 --> 01:16:23,200 I am totally reckless. 648 01:16:29,400 --> 01:16:31,480 I must study, then find a job. 649 01:16:31,760 --> 01:16:37,640 So I can take mum to places she has never been. 650 01:16:38,400 --> 01:16:41,480 She has never left our village. 651 01:16:42,640 --> 01:16:49,000 She has no idea how different life is outside of here. 652 01:16:53,000 --> 01:16:56,800 I want to give her everything she deserves. 653 01:18:03,360 --> 01:18:07,960 If my brother gets on his motorbike I will kill him. 654 01:18:08,960 --> 01:18:10,480 Stupid kid. 655 01:18:26,560 --> 01:18:28,280 Is he on the bike? 656 01:18:42,680 --> 01:18:44,320 I told you not to get on his bike. 657 01:18:50,240 --> 01:18:53,360 -Do you feel better today? -Yes. 658 01:18:53,480 --> 01:18:56,880 -How did it end up? -I refused to follow him. 659 01:18:57,160 --> 01:19:00,720 -Did he stay at your place overnight? -Yes. 660 01:19:00,960 --> 01:19:03,640 -Why? -He refused to leave. 661 01:19:04,280 --> 01:19:06,480 I couldn't force him to go. 662 01:19:07,280 --> 01:19:10,200 But he can't stay at your place forever! 663 01:19:10,840 --> 01:19:15,600 Hiding at school was a wise choice. 664 01:19:16,120 --> 01:19:21,640 I suggested it to your classmate Khu but she didn't dare do it. 665 01:19:22,520 --> 01:19:27,960 She said running away would make her parents lose face. 666 01:19:28,560 --> 01:19:33,040 The guy's family would say she wasn't properly educated. 667 01:19:33,480 --> 01:19:35,800 They follow archaic traditions. 668 01:19:37,360 --> 01:19:39,560 Women must serve their husband's family: 669 01:19:39,920 --> 01:19:43,240 cooking, cleaning, feeding the animals... 670 01:19:43,560 --> 01:19:48,040 And they are so miserable they can't even buy medicine for their kids. 671 01:19:48,360 --> 01:19:50,360 You are too young to handle this. 672 01:19:50,640 --> 01:19:55,320 But he refuses to drink the "break up" wine. 673 01:19:56,120 --> 01:20:00,080 -He didn't drink it yesterday? -I drank it but he didn't. 674 01:20:01,560 --> 01:20:06,800 Why did he change his mind? 675 01:20:08,160 --> 01:20:09,800 I don't know why. 676 01:20:10,480 --> 01:20:13,840 I told him he had no chance with me 677 01:20:14,120 --> 01:20:16,680 but he wouldn't leave my house. 678 01:20:17,120 --> 01:20:21,760 This morning I finally send him away 679 01:20:21,960 --> 01:20:24,680 but he said he will come back with his parents. 680 01:20:54,520 --> 01:20:57,520 You must be tactful. 681 01:20:59,040 --> 01:21:03,640 Say you are not ready yet and that you feel bad about it. 682 01:21:05,120 --> 01:21:12,120 Say it breaks your heart not to have a future with him. 683 01:21:13,960 --> 01:21:20,160 If you are not delicate they will say you are pretentious. 684 01:21:20,840 --> 01:21:24,280 I haven't said anything rude until now. 685 01:21:25,400 --> 01:21:29,000 This is how you should speak: 686 01:21:29,480 --> 01:21:36,080 "I am not the one for you and you deserve to be happy with someone else. 687 01:21:37,760 --> 01:21:41,720 "Please don't be sad. 688 01:21:44,320 --> 01:21:46,240 "We can be friends 689 01:21:49,920 --> 01:21:53,960 "but I will never be your wife." 690 01:21:58,320 --> 01:22:01,880 He will be devastated, you must have sympathy for him. 691 01:22:03,880 --> 01:22:06,600 He is sincere so you should respect him. 692 01:22:15,880 --> 01:22:17,800 Don't trust your teachers. 693 01:22:18,400 --> 01:22:23,040 They want you to finish school but they don't care about your future. 694 01:22:27,760 --> 01:22:32,200 You never listen to me. Who is the mother, you or me? 695 01:22:32,600 --> 01:22:36,720 When you are a mother you will understand. 696 01:22:37,560 --> 01:22:43,080 -Are you on their side? -Just do whatever you want. 697 01:22:43,640 --> 01:22:46,040 It is always my fault! 698 01:22:49,320 --> 01:22:52,640 I won't talk to you anymore. 699 01:22:55,040 --> 01:22:56,680 You made us lose face! 700 01:22:56,960 --> 01:23:00,880 I will run away, the house will be empty when they arrive. 701 01:23:01,160 --> 01:23:04,240 You are responsible for this mess 702 01:23:05,040 --> 01:23:09,640 but you don't make any effort to solve it. 703 01:23:11,680 --> 01:23:14,440 You sat on his bike, nobody forced you. 704 01:23:14,680 --> 01:23:16,280 Yes, that's it! Get lost. 705 01:23:24,120 --> 01:23:25,480 Here you are. 706 01:23:27,160 --> 01:23:28,760 How are you, Miss? 707 01:23:36,840 --> 01:23:38,880 Come here, Di. 708 01:23:39,760 --> 01:23:42,400 Bring her here, Vang. 709 01:23:59,160 --> 01:24:01,280 Tell us what's on your mind. 710 01:24:01,440 --> 01:24:04,200 Don't think too much, just follow us. 711 01:24:04,280 --> 01:24:06,920 If something bothers you then tell us. 712 01:24:07,000 --> 01:24:11,280 Vang is great and your family is fine but I refuse to get married. 713 01:24:11,360 --> 01:24:13,480 Vang would be a good husband. 714 01:24:13,680 --> 01:24:15,640 Yes, if that's what you want to hear 715 01:24:15,800 --> 01:24:17,840 but I don't want to get married. 716 01:24:17,960 --> 01:24:21,880 I am not ready for it, no matter the boy. 717 01:24:22,720 --> 01:24:27,440 If you'd rather keep on studying just say it. 718 01:24:28,920 --> 01:24:34,080 Parents shouldn't interfere, it is not our business. 719 01:24:40,680 --> 01:24:42,800 I won't come with you! 720 01:24:45,920 --> 01:24:48,280 I don't want to go. 721 01:24:51,680 --> 01:24:53,280 I don't want to go. 722 01:24:54,920 --> 01:24:56,600 Leave her alone. 723 01:24:56,720 --> 01:24:57,480 Fuck off! 724 01:24:59,400 --> 01:25:00,560 Let it be, Diem. 725 01:25:06,640 --> 01:25:09,640 I don't love him! Is that clear enough? 726 01:25:13,560 --> 01:25:15,320 Take it easy. 727 01:25:19,040 --> 01:25:22,880 Don't be scared, your new life is beginning. 728 01:25:39,000 --> 01:25:40,800 Diem, help me! 729 01:25:41,360 --> 01:25:42,440 Do something! 730 01:26:02,120 --> 01:26:05,160 If you want to end it all you must share the "break up" wine. 731 01:26:06,040 --> 01:26:08,720 Let's go inside to end it properly. 732 01:26:26,600 --> 01:26:30,440 I won't go with you even though you are a good man. 733 01:26:30,720 --> 01:26:36,200 I didn't want to be so direct but I have no choice: 734 01:26:36,440 --> 01:26:38,880 I don't love you. 735 01:26:39,120 --> 01:26:43,280 We should both find someone who makes us happy. 736 01:26:43,440 --> 01:26:46,680 I don't want to be committed to you in any way. 737 01:28:30,320 --> 01:28:33,840 I wish I could be a child again! 738 01:28:41,440 --> 01:28:42,880 Let's go.